The “Sex Age”

[Here is a draft commentary I wrote recently.  I have a Bible Study and a telecast script in the works on the subjects touched on here, so I thought I might kill an additional bird with the same stone and write a commentary on the topic.  It could definitely use an editor’s touch, but hopefully it gets the point across.  By the way: when I mention the malls, I edited out my original comment about the fact that Victoria seems to have no secrets since I thought it seemed too obscure, but I have to admit that it was one of my favorite comments.  Honestly, in some malls I have been in, it seems the huge posters outside that particular store to which I am alluding were advertising a movie: Attack of the 50 Foot Naked Women.  These days, it seems more and more that the only refuge for a young man who is seeking to keep his mind pure is to become callus to it all.  If so, then it is ironic — by “over glorifying” the female form we are risking the exact opposite effect: stripping it of the natural wonder and appeal God intended it to have.  Ironic and sad.  Anyway, enough rambling — here’s the draft…]

Archaeologists and anthropologists have labeled the many different ages in their models of the history of man, such as the “Stone Age” or the “Bronze Age.”  Given its prominence in our current society, it would not be a wonder if future anthropologists were to label our culture the “Sex Age.”

We are surrounded by it.  The assault on our senses and our minds is almost inescapable.  Images that were once confined to magazines sold in brown paper bags to adults are now publicly and unavoidably displayed in our shopping malls in bigger-than-life advertisements for all the world to see – regardless of age.  Sex is used to sell everything from potato chips to radial tires.

The resulting cultural environment is damaging in more ways than we can count.  Women are objectified and must struggle against being judged according to their ability to appear as “sexy” as the airbrushed, digitally and artificially “enhanced” women they see in the media.  Men, too, are harmed – virtually “programmed” by the onslaught of images to see women as mere sources of sexual pleasure, instead of equals and partners they can love and respect.

And our children suffer, as well.  Marketers have figured out the monetary success of the KGOY formula – “Kids Getting Older Younger.”  They have learned that there is a great deal of money to be made by selling “sexy” clothing to little children, and that the sexually enticing and revealing fashions that little girls see on TV make for popular clothes for their dolls, as well as styles that they will demand to wear for themselves.

The fact is God designed sex (cf. Gen 1:27), and He did, indeed, create it to be a powerful force in the lives of a married couple.  The sexual union not only provides for the creation of children, but also for the intense emotional bonding that He wants between a husband and wife.  The Bible describes the “way of a man with a maiden” as almost too wonderful for words (Proverbs 30:18-19, RSV), and in the context God intended, it truly is.  When used as its Creator intended, sex is a wonderful and joyous part of married life!

But as my wife’s grandfather used to say, God didn’t design sex to be a spectator sport.  And in Satan’s world – which this is (2 Corinthians 4:4, KJV) – anything powerful enough to move the human mind at its deepest levels is up for grabs as a means of manipulation for the sake of profit.  For purposes of profit and illicit gratification, that wonderful facet of God’s creation has been dragged out of the intimate confines of the marital bedroom and has been increasingly put on display for all the world to see – including children.

The consequences have been – and continue to be – disastrous for the family and for society in general.  Venereal diseases run rampant.  Children are “sexualized” even before reaching puberty.  And the concept of “sexual satisfaction” now focuses on “technique,” “experience,” and “experimentation,” instead of what God Almighty intended to be the ultimate source of “sexual satisfaction”: powerful, bonding intimacy between man and wife.  Better to have an “experienced lover” in the bedroom than to experience love there.  What a shame.

But a day is coming that the Bible calls the “restoration of all things” (Acts 3:21), when things will be as God intended.  Like a beautiful gemstone placed in a perfectly fashioned setting of gold, sex will return to the place where its God-designed potential finds its fullest and most powerful expression: marriage.

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3 thoughts on “The “Sex Age”

  1. kildrum

    Today’s posting caused me to peruse again a college text book – the late Herbert W. Armstrong’s October 1964 publication entitled “GOD SPEAKS OUT on the New Morality.”

    On the West Lawn at Bricket Wood, England, Chancellor Armstrong’s address during graduating exercises for the Class of ‘67 was entitled “The New Morality – the Old Immorality”.

    This subject was very much on Mr. Armstrong’s mind throughout the sixties and he spoke and wrote on it extensively during that time period.

    If you can pick up a copy of the hard back unabridged work it is highly recommended since its contents, in my view, have not been excelled in the course of the last forty three years; rather, have been proven very prophetic indeed.

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